badass girls

mentorship & community experiences for preteen & teen girls 🤟🦄🦋😍


 

about & contact

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“badass”

adj. 1. fearless, authentic, and compassionate, Urban Dictionary


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Are you a parent who loves a badass girl?

Welcome!

We made a page just for you (cause we’ve got words + a vision just from our hearts to yours).


 
 

a note from Eliza

Dear badass preteen & teen girl,

You're not too much. You don't have too many feelings, too much (insert body feature here), too much intensity, too much of a need for blessed quiet, too many opinions, too much softness, or too much... of, well, anything.

You're just right the way you are (and some days I get that that's harder to believe). I want to meet you here: loud, tender, scared, quiet, full, yearning, ecstatic, unsure, and in the middle of it all. Life is crazy sometimes. Let's make it less crazy (or only the good kind of crazy).

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How would your life be different if you were more real?

I mean — if you let go of the masks — showed up as more of yourself — was honest with how you felt — stopped stressing about saying the next ‘right’ thing so that people like you or think you’re ‘cool’ —

And instead…

You were nerdy and passionate —

You were open when you were struggling, and got real support —

You let yourself be as brilliant as you are (and didn’t hide it) —

You stopped judging your feelings (we’ve all got ‘em) —

You started living more of YOUR life (and not somebody else’s idea of what it should look like)?

Let’s find out.


Love, Eliza

Badass Girls Creator

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at badass girls we’re all about mentorship

[aka big sisters]

You see, our team isn’t therapists —

(though we think therapy is cool)

— we’re mentors.

We think we all need really great big sisters who have our back.


things about our badass girl community:

You likely:

  • have a heart that’s somehow bigger than your bodies (yeah, the daily feelings roller coaster is no joke)

  • want to feel more confident being yourself (…still figuring out that whole ‘who am i’ thing though)

  • breath a sigh of relief (and maybe disbelief a little bit…) that you could actually just be who you are with other teen girls

  • dream of making art with your life (taking that epic trip, writing that song, having the most amazing friends, changing the world…!)

  • are ready for more real talk (and a legit big sister you love who has your back sounds amazing)


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we’re a little different

(than other programs)

and we like it that way

(#❄️)


what makes us different?

  1. A lot of our programs are online (so you can join us 🤷🏻‍♀️ wherever you are 🌎).

  2. All of our mentors are ages 18-24, so they actually get it. 🙏

  3. We talk about real things (that most folks don’t talk to preteens and teens about — have you noticed?), like: anxiety, having a period that doesn’t suck, sex ed that isn’t just about not getting pregnant, and getting free of the friend drama that swamped you this week. Why? Cause like, these are the real things that fill up our lives too (also, life’s better when we talk about them).


oh, and here’s a myth to bust:

we’re not just for people who are really struggling

(though if you are, we got you, boo)

everyone deserves badass big sisters


 

let’s hang out:

 

 

meet our founder:

 
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Eliza

[she/they]

creator of badass girls + host of the be real podcast + mentor

Eliza’s the best-selling author of “Mothering & Daughtering”, and for 15 years she’s been creating space for preteen + teen girls to be their real selves.

To me, ‘badass’ means being your whole, real, vulnerable self. It means taking up space. It means being imperfect.

more about eliza

Eliza [she/they] is a best-selling author, speaker, workshop facilitator, and professional big sister who keeps it real. Since the age of 15 she’s been teaching at workshop centers and conferences (like the Omega Institute, Esalen Institute, Kripalu Center, and the Emerging Women Conference) alongside leaders 4 times her age. She’s the co-author of the best-selling book with her mom, “Mothering & Daughtering: Keeping Your Bond Strong Through the Teen Years” (she wrote the sassy side for teen girls).

For almost 15 years, Eliza’s writing, speaking and teaching has called B.S. on the cultural stereotype that teen girls are selfish, mean, vapid, and image-obsessed. Instead, she gives voice to, celebrates, and creates spaces for teen girls’ sensitivity, wacky weird passions, feisty comebacks, fierce truths, tender hearts, sensual embodiment, and full-out, real-talk, whole, imperfect, ever-evolving self expression.

Eliza was trained as a Peer Educator for Planned Parenthood in High School, and was a consultant for Eve Ensler, (“Vagina Monologues,”) on her book for teenage girls: “I Am an Emotional Creature” (so you could say she specializes in making awkward & important topics cool & normal). Eliza graduated from Brown University with an undergraduate degree in Gender & Sexuality Studies, and is a certified Qoya movement teacher. Her deepest pride is her relationship with her self, especially her tender friendship with her own anxiety. She lives with her partner, Will, in Vermont.

 
 

my mama + me

that (kickass) book we wrote 10 years ago

 

 

Wanna know more about our guest teaching team?

meet y(our) faculty:

[aka our teachers for the badass academy // available for all mentorship circles]

 

 
ANDRÉA RANAE (she/they)Teen Academy: Liberation

ANDRÉA RANAE (she/they)

Teen Academy: Liberation

ROCHELLE SCHIECK (she/her)Teen Academy: Reclamation

ROCHELLE SCHIECK (she/her)

Teen Academy: Reclamation

QIDDIST ASHÉ (they/them)Preteen + Teen Academy: Anatomy

QIDDIST ASHÉ (they/them)

Preteen + Teen Academy: Anatomy

NICOLE JARDIM (she/her)Preteen + Teen Academy: Periods

NICOLE JARDIM (she/her)

Preteen + Teen Academy: Periods

ASHA FROST (she/her)Preteen + Teen Academy: Magic + Sensitivity

ASHA FROST (she/her)

Preteen + Teen Academy: Magic + Sensitivity

ALEXX TEMEÑA (she/her)Teen Academy: Centering + the Brain

ALEXX TEMEÑA (she/her)

Teen Academy: Centering + the Brain

BECCA PIASTRELLI (she/her)Teen Academy Yr 2: Roots + Belonging

BECCA PIASTRELLI (she/her)

Teen Academy Yr 2: Roots + Belonging

KAREN BRODY (she/her)Teen Academy: Rest + Dreaming

KAREN BRODY (she/her)

Teen Academy: Rest + Dreaming

CHAHNEY YOUNG HINDS (they/them)Teen Academy: Expressing + Activism

CHAHNEY YOUNG HINDS (they/them)

Teen Academy: Expressing + Activism

MARA GLATZEL (she/her)Teen Academy Yr 2: Self-Care + Being Needy

MARA GLATZEL (she/her)

Teen Academy Yr 2: Self-Care + Being Needy

NITIKA CHOPRA (she/her)Teen Academy Yr 2: Self-Love

NITIKA CHOPRA (she/her)

Teen Academy Yr 2: Self-Love

NISHA MOODLEY (she/her)Teen Academy: Leadership

NISHA MOODLEY (she/her)

Teen Academy: Leadership

MADELINE GILES (she/her)Teen Academy: Expressing

MADELINE GILES (she/her)

Teen Academy: Expressing

KATE KERNOCHAN (she/her)Teen Academy: Belonging to Yourself

KATE KERNOCHAN (she/her)

Teen Academy: Belonging to Yourself

ODERA IGBOKWE (they/them)Teen Academy: Creativity

ODERA IGBOKWE (they/them)

Teen Academy: Creativity

TRUDY-ANNE MOTHERSILLE (she/her)Teen Academy Yr 2: Self-Trust + Power

TRUDY-ANNE MOTHERSILLE (she/her)

Teen Academy Yr 2: Self-Trust + Power

 

meet (y)our mentors:

[aka our badass team of trained big siblings/sisters]

 
LILY KAFKA (she/her)Preteen Lead Circle MentorPreteen + Teen Academy Mentor“Badass is being vulnerable with people who have earned your trust.”

LILY KAFKA (she/they)

Co-Lead Mentor for the Preteen and Younger Teen Circles

Assistant Mentor for the Older Teen Circle

“Badass is being vulnerable with people who have earned your trust.”

EMILY SCLAR (she/they)Teen Academy Mentor“Badass is unapologetically being your real self, and honoring your body’s needs.”

EMILY SCLAR (she/they)

Assistant Mentor for the Younger and Older Teen Circles

“Badass is unapologetically being your real self, and honoring your body’s needs.”

LILI PLATT (she/her)Teen Lead Circle MentorTeen Academy Mentor“Badass is being in devotion to collective liberation, including your own.”

LILI PLATT (she/they)

Co-Lead Mentor for the Preteen and Younger Teen Circles

Assistant Mentor for the Older Teen Circle

“Badass is being in devotion to collective liberation, including your own.”

BENUNTHI SINGH (she/her)Preteen Academy Mentor“Badass is knowing there’s no ‘wrong’ way to be the real you.”

BENUNTHI SINGH (she/her)

Assistant Mentor for the Preteen Circle

“Badass is knowing there’s no ‘wrong’ way to be the real you.”

XOLA OWENS (she/they/he)Preteen Academy Mentor“Badass is giving yourself unconditional respect, and being happy with yourself.”

XOLA OWENS (she/they/he)

Assistant Mentor for the Preteen and Younger Teen Circle

“Badass is giving yourself unconditional respect, and being happy with yourself.”

🌙🎨😴

these mentors are currently on creative sabbatical

 
KYRA IMAN ANANDA (she/they)Preteen Academy Mentor“Badass is the bravery to get present with your life, and trust yourself.”

KYRA IMAN ANANDA (she/they)

“Badass is the bravery to get present with your life, and trust yourself.”

ELLIE WOLVERTON (she/her)Preteen + Teen Academy Mentor“Badass is asking for what you need, and sharing your gifts with the world.”

ELLIE WOLVERTON (she/her)

“Badass is asking for what you need, and sharing your gifts with the world.”

DEVON TAKAGAWA (she/her)Preteen Academy Mentor“Badass is being unflinchingly kind to others and yourself too.”

DEVON TAKAGAWA (she/her)

“Badass is being unflinchingly kind to others and yourself too.”

ANJA WEAVER (she/her)Teen Academy Mentor“Badass is straight up superhero vibes, but being your super human self.”

ANJA WEAVER (she/her)

“Badass is straight up superhero vibes, but being your super human self.”

CADY DE LA CRUZ (she/they)Teen Assistant Circle MentorPreteen + Teen Academy Mentor“Badass is taking up space, being honest, and diving into your life.”

CADY DE LA CRUZ (she/they)

“Badass is taking up space, being honest, and diving into your life.”

JESS LOPEZ (she/they)Preteen Assistant Circle MentorPreteen + Teen Academy Mentor“Badass is being both soft and strong, and being your wonderfully different self.”

JESS LOPEZ (she/they)

“Badass is being both soft and strong, and being your wonderfully different self.”

 
 

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Ever heard of a professional mentor?

Probably not 😉 —

It’s a unique Badass Girls thing. All of our Mentors are older teens or young adults have gone through the Badass Girls programs themselves, and receive extensive training from our Mentor Training Team.


meet (y)our Team:

(AKA OUR BADASS GIRLS TEAM)

 
 
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Jennifer

eliza’s Assistant + community care

Jennifer Fay works behind the scenes at Badass Girls as the Executive Assistant, keeper of the calendar, and community care in the BG inbox. She loves weaving the threads of big projects together, and believes the details are where the magic happens. She lives in Washington state and spends her weekends exploring the forests and mountains of the PNW.

 
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Miranda

Tech + Systems

Miranda Merten is the master behind tech & systems at Badass Girls. She is a Small Business Manager, Efficiency Strategist and an Informational Content Creator, who loves helping other female entrepreneurs leverage technology to overcome overwhelm in life and business. She lives in Atlanta, Georgia with her wonderful daughter and Labradoodle.

 

contact badass girls:

General inquiries: hello@badassgirls.me

Mentorship Circle inquiries: hello@badassgirls.me

Bring Eliza to lead a training: hello@badassgirls.me