episode 58: people pleasing + when other people don't like you with james-olivia chu hillman
Hey loves -- I used to reaalllllyyyyy not like it when people didn’t like me (ok, it’s still not the most comfy) and I’d spend whole days (ok, years) devoted to trying to get everyone to like me so I could have a ‘good’ day and feel like a ‘good’ person. If that feels icky and layered… it’s because it is -- and if that feels relatable at all (or you’re interested in why some people might feel that way) then today’s episode might be for YOU!
James-Olivia is an ‘avid maker of mistakes’ and a ‘fellow work in progress’ who facilitates extraordinary, uncomfortable, life-changing conversations… and today’s episode was one of those for me! I mean I knew I was excited to talk to this amazing human… and then kind of whole universes opened up in my brain ;) You’ll hear us talking about disappointing others, why ‘good’ and ‘bad’ isn’t helpful, why being liked can feel linked to safety, caring about how others feel, and other things (amazing things!!). Come listen :) xoxoxo, Eliza
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